Yet many women are reluctant to open up as a result of Nepal’s patriarchal society and structural discrimination, violence and inequality: “Our personality, our virginity and our sexuality are a matter of prestige for our families. We have seen many cases of women who have been rejected by their families because they are victims of conflict-related violence. The women keep these incidents to themselves, and one can only imagine how deep the wounds must be that have kept them suffering for 20 years. But we try to tell them that they shouldn’t blame themselves.”
The 2006 peace agreement did not address the repercussions the civil war had on women. It also failed to call for a gender-sensitive politics. To combat structural discrimination, which is deeply entrenched in Nepali society, Nagarik Aawaz works to raise awareness among other stakeholders too, such as government agencies and community administrations, by inviting them to peace dialogues with women affected by the war.
“These dialogues create a kind of social echo, and local stakeholders have begun to acknowledge the pain and trauma borne by the women. Now the local government has provided health insurance for them, and a budget for mental well-being has been created,” says Susan Risal, highlighting the organisation’s political successes.